How i go through the world is a reflection of who i am, how i see myself. To do that, i have a mix of my underlying sense of self and people around me to confirm it. We can't come to new values we don't have the resources ourselves. I'm coming to dislike the word tribalism. Let me suggest a different worda the word i' suggest is kinship. So we stand in kinship relations to others. The existence of those kinship relations is what gives rise to the vice known as tribalism. And then i want you to react to this philosopher i know who taught me about aspiration that says, and that's you, for listeners who