Adding Value to a System

The more we contribute to a system by being that self-regulating mature, holding other people's perspective, attuned model, I add value. And this actually, because I'm contributing, I become my internal state and my status within the system becomes more secure. That may not be a conscious verbal thing, but it's very intuitively in terms of how systems work. We can use our own special sensitivities and talents and all the perspectives we have to contribute to the system to add understanding.