When people are fraught, we subconsciously will start making decisions on what's the thing that's most likely to keep me safe. And if you have to dissociate to create that fawn state, which is the part of our personality enables us to do that. I think it was more like when she went over his apartment after the fist fight, I think it's more like she really cares for Tom and it doesn't feel good that they were in this bad spot. But she's still at some point lowered her boundary. Two, because she set the boundary on him that like, nope, like there will be like, he's not a couple. Well, he's expecting that