Relationship Analysis and Self Analysis

I think that there is a lot of over analysis that we're doing of ourselves and our partnerships in this era. I've seen it show up in our letters and in our ourselves like this sort of anxiety about like am I doing this right? How am I going to know if this feels right? You know and for me it is the it's deeply relatable and it's also there is no nowness in it. We've become so good at analyzing ourselves or discovering our urges that it focuses on well what does this mean? What does this lead to? Where does this come from? Oh for sure. Absolutely. But I think too much of a good thing. Is that a