What's Normal in Monogamy?

Jessica: I think everybody does things a little differently even in monogamy. But the thing that I would say is what I'm making up to this person where this person is coming from is that everything behind closed doors is private. Jessica: We don't really talk about the intimate details of our relationship with anybody is what I see as kind of the norm. And yet it feels like, of course there's exceptions, you know, that like women or femmes are like sharing it with their girlfriends or things like that.