Sometimes we have difficulty taking pride in stuff, which is kind of weird. We just of assume that everyone knows how to take pride in stuff,. Like it's an emotion, so shouldn't everyone be capable of feeling pride? The interesting thing is that some of us actually grow up in a situation whe're based on how certain behaviors are reinforced and what kind of feedback we get. So interestingly enough, the inability for some people's lack of like validation when they struggle also makes it hard for them to feel pride.