Are You Dating a Girlfriend or a Boyfriend?

If you two are investing time in each other and have spent hours texting it's a little more than reasonable for you to question like hey what are we. If they say well we're not dating I don't owe you anything you owe me respect especially if you're sleeping with each other. You have every right to set boundaries and protect yourself from someone who is being intimate with another person or multiple people. One of the biggest red flags that we tend to ignore when we like someone is when they say let's keep this low key let's not tell anyone I like our privacyPeople don't need to know what we're doing I like how we are we don't have to make it public,