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Lori Gottlieb on Changing Your Life by Changing the Story

The Daily Stoic

CHAPTER

The Importance of Being Flexible

Every relationship is like a dance. And if you change your dance steps, the other person is either going to change their dance steps or they're going to fall flat on the dance floor. You can't change another person, but you can influence another person by changing your own behavior. So instead of saying, well, if you act this way toward me, then I'll be kinder to you, it's I'm going to act in the way I want to be in this relationship.

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