
#72: 5 Tips for Loving Someone Well
On Attachment
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How to Create a Climate of Withholding in Your Relationship
I think that when we notice ourselves in that place of point scoring or competitiveness, it's just not nice. We're not giving compliments to receive compliments, we're not giving appreciation to receive appreciation. It costs us nothing to be openhearted and loving and voice appreciation for someone. And it costs us a lot to do the converse, which is to cultivate a climate and culture of bitterness and resentment that is not fertile soil for love to grow.
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