Is Marriage Designed to Be Comfortable?

i think of marriage as a love relationship. I'm so thankful for the love that llowella and i have. We just enjoy one other. And we have this depth of friendship forged over all these years. Is such a beautiful thing. There are joys in that that are almost, you almost fail to be able to describe these joys. But i want to say that if you, if you look at the video of marriage, you must conclude that it wasn't designed to be comfortable. If god has designed marriage to be the most comfortable place on earth, he's a massif failure. Marriage is designed to be transformational. It it is a workroom for grace.