How to Be More Effective in High Conflict

It seems as though in good conflict, it should be a transformative experience for everybody involved. Even if you end up in more or less the same place, like nothing changes. There's this real danger in every unintedup following a bunch of people who had shifted from high conflict to good conflict. In every single case, so a politician in california, former gang in chicago, an activist in england, they start mimicking their adversaries without realizing it.