What Are Red Flags and Amber Lights?

There is a difference between red flags and amber lights. A red flag is something that we should genuinely, you know, it falls under that ignore at your peril category. However, there are amberlits, which i define as conversations,. Things that you should talk about and use as an opportunity to either find a real point of ference that isn't going to work., or find a moment of coming together where you go, oh, we can you feel this way? Oh, that's ok, then i'll adjust that. Or let's come to a place of greater understanding. Ambeligts are actually the makings of a relationship. The ability to talk about differences and to