The Importance of Recognizing Our Choice

I think it's all too easy for us to sort of retreat into our woundedness and again that is understandable because if something happens and somebody does us wrong you know their words fail. We also have to ask are we victimizing ourselves if they're not talking to us, he says. I can't say that it's just one side but post-wedding there has been a code of silence in the couple's relationship. He writes: "If we acknowledged even that we might be feeling less burdened by drama"