Do Not Say Yes Until Your Heart Sets a DPS

Don't say yes until your heart says it's deep. Every couple has what I call a good fight, although sometimes it can be like a fight. A friend of mine's therapist said to him early on in the relationship that he's in for many, many, many years now. You and your husband are tasked with spending a lifetime learning a foreign language. And that foreign language is the language of your partner. But nobody gets out of this. Nobody gets to the next step who has this question until they go to the mat"