The Dilemma of Leaving Your Career to Pursue Law School

"I love him so much that I am terrified for our future," writes a woman who is leaving her military husband to go to law school. "Are you guys built for that? There are many, many, many couples who have endured long times apart?" asks the author of this week's CNN iReport column. The question isn't an all-or-nothing one, but it can be complicated if both partner and spouse want their lives to change in some way because of your career goals.