Pillow Talks cover image

Episode 83: How To Fight Fair In A Relationship: Breaking Down A Listener Argument

Pillow Talks

00:00

The Goal During a Conflict Is to Understand Your Partner, Not to Agree

She was trying to deescalate there and say like, it's funny that we both have this inaccurate idea of what the other person wants. So I feel like again, she was kind of giving them a little bit of an olive branch. One of my favorite techniques to use in any sort of remotely heated or difficult conversation is to lead with curiosity. We always talk about like the goal during a conflict should be to understand your partner, not to agree with your partner.

Transcript
Play full episode

The AI-powered Podcast Player

Save insights by tapping your headphones, chat with episodes, discover the best highlights - and more!
App store bannerPlay store banner
Get the app