Do You Think We Have to Hold on to the Feminine Difference?

I know feminists who think we have to hold on to the feminine difference, right? And that's what feminism is. Have you ever found yourself in a kind of a bind on that? Or is that just been like, that's just been your position always and you haven't budged? I've taught their positions in feminist theory classes, but I have never agreed with them. This is actually something I feel really strongly about.