Are You Uncomfortable With Saying No to People?

i used to have an awful lotof drama going on in my life. I was like, every week it felt like some big thing was going down. And any time that happens, i'm like, ok, what we need to tweak in my life to make me less open to this? We can't carry on as if life use as something as happening to us. The first question then is, what is the for provoking question, or even questions, that are being imposed by life? And so i'll give you some examples. If you keep being in situations that bring up a lot of drama, what are you so uncomfortable with that you struggle with setting clear boundaries and even opting out