Is There a Ladder of Trauma in Psycho Analysis?

"I think that one of the premises of psycho analysis is we can't quantify traumas and stack them up," she says. "What could seem innocuous to me could be traumatic for you because of certain things in my background or whatever right like that so I think like like if I like so when I was in first grade I stole it, which still bears this traumatic weight", he adds. 'If someone didn't have this like really religious upbringing that I did that like maybe stealing something is just would be nothing'