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The Relationship Between Feeling Ugly and Dating Again
As women in particular, but also men I think we're told that if we don't conform to certain standards of attractiveness a man is never going to choose us. Back when our quality of life was tied to marriage that really mattered a lot There's all this gender socialization that occurs from a young age and it reinforces the idea that My value as a woman lies in my physical appearance. It takes a lot of effort and energy to not care about what we look like Especially in a society that puts it front and center So I think that's one factor putting myself back into an environment in which First impressions and and looks feel like they matter.