The Importance of Saying No

I'm really proud of you for standing up for yourself. It's really hard to say no sometimes especially to family and friends. Not a single person knows we are getting married no friends no family So is that what happens when you look we don't tell anyone? Is that oh? I see the appeal with that if you told you're mom She's gonna be like what can I not come? so it's almost like you just do it with a two of you and then it's like guys done we've done it Yeah, and it's like we can go for a nice dinner and celebrate otherwise than everyone's being like well Why why can't we come here? Can't I just