Resilience and the Cinderella Story

I didn't think we'd be talking about Cinderella today, but so her, her having to like put up with a terrible upbringing or whatever. And then to go from that and then the, you know, Cinderella story, obviously we all know how that goes and she's happy. Also makes me think of like, is there something more profound there to wet, to like where in order to experience joy, you have to experience sadness. I almost wonder if the Cinderella story was not the right metaphor because it took a lot of magic for her to get to the other side. To me, that's almost like the ultimate form of resilience to where what is it?