The Secret of Human Progress Is Specialization and Exchange

I was incredibly lucky in that respect and you're absolutely right about the beauty and intelligence of my wife. So thank you for pointing that out. You don't have to be verbally proficient, I think is the best way to go. But if you're only a good writer or you're only good with certain other things, being good at almost anything is attractive to women. The way you get confident is the same way you get girls to be attracted to you. And the way you get good is starting small and practicing.