How to Approach a Group of Strangers to Map Out What's Going On

I hear people now with different opinions, who go through the process of outlining, and still manning each other's positions. I actually find myself getting really emotional. It feels like something that's so missing. We don't always feel that we have it in our sort of personal sphere sometimes. The right wing might be trying to revitalize tradition or how to re-approach tradition. How do we allow for freedom of individuality without reinventing gender and then medicalizing it because our experts have been caught up by this kind of post-liberal project of progressivism? And I was thinking, I was trying to find the radical center between those two things. What do we really need to gain