The idea of a bit a boundary blue print, using your language, makes a lot of sense too. But what's fascinating to me is also the notion that the things that go into that blueprint, like the choicest you make about where the boundaries are and how you draw them when you're young, maybe they were healthy then. Maybe they actually kept you alive. And yet it seems like, um, you know, what becomes this blueprint never gets re ed as life circumstances involve. Yes. I think we've all, we all have, whether it's our family of origin, whetherr s and family weather's the circumstances of our lives when we're coming up,. It leaves

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