Getting More Comfortable With Confrontation

It sounds to me like becoming more comfortable with confrontation. And it's common that we then find anger can arise, which is the budding of self-worth. A person who believes they don't deserve anything good to happen to them won't get angry if bad things happen. So the way of reframing anger in that sense kind of, kind of helps. You're also sharpening an argumentation and debate skill, which I think is useful.