This chapter introduces the episode and discusses how to turn anger towards our children into an opportunity for improving relationships. It emphasizes the importance of remaining calm as parents and coaching our children, and explores the concept of being 'triggered' and overreacting to present situations.
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Episode 2029:
Dr. Laura Markham's article, "Angry? Don't Lose it. Use It!" from Aha Parenting.com, emphasizes the importance of managing anger, especially in parenting. It discusses how children perceive our anger and the negative impact it can have. Markham advises against acting out when triggered and offers strategies to transform anger into a learning opportunity. By understanding the underlying causes of our reactions, we can develop better emotional regulation, providing a healthier environment for both ourselves and our children, and setting a positive example in emotional management.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.ahaparenting.com/read/Self-Care-When-Your-Kids-Push-Your-Buttons
Quotes to ponder:
"When we're angry, it's because we think we need to protect ourselves from some threat."
"Resist acting when you're triggered."
"The paradox is that the child seems to be creating the problem, but when we work on our part of it, the problem always diminishes."
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