We Don't Forgive. We Hold Things Over People Indefinitely

I think that we hold the grievances of others over their heads because it gives us power over them. And i think if i can imagine you to be some evil whatever, then that may me superior to you. We don't forgive. We hold things over people indefinitely. That's our way of having power over other people. I got a whole thing on that. I need to write all that down, maybe on substacki got through the armor and started talking about that. Started thinking about some things that. Could have handled better. If i could change after realizing i was wrong and hoped that people would see that change and maybe even give me the space and trust to changeThen surely other