Well, and not only that, but somebody's smell doesn't hav this is these studies have been done. Their smell no longer is intoxicating, or you're around it all the time, you long d lationships are great, cause you just get those hats and they go away. They're great. They're not so conducive to raising a family. Often they can be, i don't want a family, so i lov along disence relationship. Oka, is this a more common thing in your generation? Tho, no, we talk about the slot tie o lice. I don't want to livewith somebody. It's like, the key to any relationship is like, time apart. Have your own your own interest, your own you know her. There are cultures, for instance, where people don't touch for two weeks out of the month. That seems a littlee orthodox, but guess what. But guess what, in the two weeks where they do yoursels arn, it's incredibly intense for decades. Very interesting, right? Were who is doing mis i? Well, it does an orthodox judism, but other cultures too, where they cover up. I'm not saying, ha, that's the way to do. Thisha, we have this model of relationship, especially in this country, that, you know, it all starts with this amazing union that's very dopum anurgic, and that can carry people the entire relationship. Now, that probably is true in certain circumstances, but for a lot of people whoe, who need that high amplitude dopemin system engaged. It's very simple find ways to miss one another. Missing somebody is a great feeling. It's like being hungry and eating really good food. It's

true. How can you ever last

if you never miss what you're with m all the time? To i'm always in long dostec relationships. It's amazing. But no, i think it's really fastng that the thing that like, really berrels us towards each other so quickly and excitement, and you know, that it makes you want to beu this person allthe time, is the thing that sort of like creates like monotony and makes

you not want to be together. Well.