How to Measure Success on Happiness

I would probably measure success on happiness, like kind of going back to what I was saying with like, people think that like, oh God, if I want. So our house is pretty much set up like that. And I feel like it's worked for me, whether it was because like my mindset like wanting to believe it and then these things like started changing. We were going through like a bit of like a sexual funk. It's just like thriving. Yeah, living is the best life. Do you believe in questions? Do you believes in like a bunch like like the nine, the nine grid and stuff like that?