Are You Unsatisfactory?

We desperately want to find meaning in things. Another area where unsatisfactoriness arises is around the topic of being liked and disliked. And if I perceive that I'm disliked, there's a tinge of unsatisfactoriness that arises because I want things to be other than how they are. It's an evolutionary hardwiring of the brain that makes us want to be liked and to avoid being disliked.