Beware Gottman's Four Horsemen, which are criticism, defense of ness, stone walling, and contempt. Go for excitement over pleasantness, particularly as a relationship goes on. And then show compassion in the midst of an argument. We're at roughly 20% accuracy with friends, 30%, with spouses, 35%. But what's... It's incredible.
Eric Barker teaches our curator Daniel Pink how to make friends, disarm marital conflicts, and spot liars.