Dispassion is only the way of entangling yours, disentangling yourself from the net of sam sara. The whole problem is we are ness bat's entangled with the body and mind. Entanglements, not don't think of it as physically entangled. It's just our misunderstanding. Yeare yama the teacher is a householder. Is a god, but heis a householders. He is not a monk. Most of the wade s from whom the penshuts came, theyr householders. We can be dispassionate to worldly life if we listen to eran to be spiritual.