The Pathological Narcissist

The pathological narcissist does not care if money is needed for bills or rent. He may spend all of it on things for himself if you don't stop him. The most abuse falls on the victim when she cannot do exactly what the narcissist wants at any given time. This is a lot of the time because the narcissist sets his partner up in no-win situations where no matter what she does, it's wrong.