How Do You Deal With Jokes That Are Really Rusty and Hurting?

How do yo deal with jokes that are actually incredibly rude and hurtful to everyone in the room? Everyone in the room is laughing. So i would just say straight up, i know all all are laughing. Do you see me laughing? I don't think this is funny. Say it exactly like that. It will kill the mood instantly. People will stop talking with you. Just call attention to it. And you learned to see things authentically, you know, when you me tate,. Like, a lot of this comes from spiritual training as well as, like, psychiatrical training. But just call it what it is, right?