How Do I Tell Her I Think of Her Fucking Other Guys Turns Me On?

A lot of us feel like in order to have good sex communication, we have to tell our partner everything that's going on in our head when really we don't. If you're having a sexy conversation and you're sharing things about each other that match this type of truth or this type of thought, then that's the best time to put that out there. But just because you have thoughts doesn't mean they have to be shared with your partner unless it pertains to your relationship as a whole.