INFJs - Is There an Antithesis to Harmony?

Some INFJs have spent more time fine tuning that instrument. And others have actually unconsciously but actively gone the other direction. They've done what they can to deaden that ability that they don't want to be sensitive. ENCP: I'm naturally attracted to this type and this type is kind of naturally attracted to me. We have a lot of polarity in our attraction. It's difficult for them to build intimacy with another person because once that person's in, they're in. You want to make sure anybody that you invite in is not going to be a bull in a China shop.