Do you feel overlooked, struggling to connect while opportunities slip away? What if you could make anyone pay attention, understand your needs, and want to work with you? David Snyder’s Killer Influence system teaches the “echo method,” a simple yet powerful way to build instant rapport by reflecting people’s own words. This technique fosters trust, deepens connections, and helps you get what you want—without manipulation. Imagine every conversation becoming magnetic, where people feel truly heard and drawn to you.
Standout Quotes:
• “The currency of all relationships is attention. Getting attention is easy if you use the right words. Keeping attention is even easier if you use the right words.” – Dr. David Snyder
• “Human beings never resist themselves, and this is something you can literally take to the bank, the bedroom, the classroom, and the treatment room.” – Dr. David Snyder
• “If you had the ability to communicate with someone in such a way that they felt heard, paid attention to, understood, and validated, deeper and faster than they've ever felt with anyone else, and you intentionally chose not to use it, who's the asshole.” – Dr. David Snyder
• “The fact that you're choosing not to consciously exert influence doesn't mean you aren't influencing people. You can't not influence them.” – Dr. David Snyder
• “If you understand what a person truly, deeply, and emotionally wants, and how they know they're getting it, you simply need to show them a clear path to achieving that by doing what you want, and they will do it.” – Dr. David Snyder
Key Takeaways:
• Practice the echo technique with servers, bartenders, or other service workers to build your skill without high-stakes pressure. Repeat their exact words back to them and observe how they respond.
• Audit your current conversations. Are you truly listening, or just waiting to speak? Challenge yourself to use at least 50% of your next three conversations repeating the other person's words verbatim.
• Create a personal "emotional needs" checklist. What do you deeply want in relationships, work, and personal growth? Understanding your own needs will help you recognize them in others.
• Spend one week intentionally making everyone you interact with feel heard. Your goal: Make them walk away feeling like you're the most understanding person they've ever met.
• Record and review three of your conversations this week. Analyze how often you use the other person's language, and track the emotional connection that results.
Episode Timeline:
[00:25] Event details and why spots are filling up fast
[02:16] How to use persuasion without crossing ethical lines
[05:39] The right way to influence without deception or harm
[10:29] The echo technique that makes people listen and trust
[27:14] Live demo of the echo technique in real conversations
[36:50] Avoiding manipulation and focusing on win-win outcomes
[44:17] Practical application of the echo technique
[55:16] How storytelling creates deep emotional connections
[1:07:11] What’s inside the influence training and free bonuses
[1:07:33] Final thoughts and how to start using these skills today
To learn more about Dr. David Snyder and everything about NLP, visit:
Website: https://www.nlppower.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DavidSnyderNLP
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidsnydernlp
