Is Your Partner Miserable?

Detiker: I think the question is whether or not those unsolvable problems become such an issue that it's going to damage the relationship irreparably or if it's something that you can work through and ultimately still stay together. Detiker: If their partner seems like they're miserable it probably causes a certain amount of guilt for this person and they don't want to be hurting their partner. She says breaking up with someone because you're miserable  is super valid but also sucks as a message to deliver. Dettaker: You need to make some requests about the way you want to see the relationship change or you need to communicate those things to your partner.