How to Deal With Conflicts in Relationships

Most humans are unawakened, so they are completely only one dimensional. So you'd have to come down a bit from there in order to pick up the phone and be able to focus on what it is that you need to focus on. But then is always a question, a balance between you as a person, using your mind in dealing with things in this world, and you as the unconditioned consciousness. There is still some spaciousness in every relationship. Is thas while you talk, while you discuss something, can you still send in the background yourself as that space awareness? Or how can we deal with this?