i did a video on your u two channel a couple o years ago now, which is fuckin crazy to say, yes, ma'am. And it was called a should men be vulnerable? Yes. For a lot of men, being vulnerable can feel like they've cheapened themselves in the same way that women may feel giving up sex too early can cheapen themselves. There's plenty of women who can honestly say that they've slept with somebody and it's been used against them afterwards. So i think the general crux video was like for people to understand. I think it's fantasticas rhetoric was dead, vulnerable men be more vulmerable geting touched. But people never really