i think one of the misconceptions about anti fat bias is that the worst forms of it come from strangers. When you look at the actual survey data, what actual fat people say is that the most hurtful forms of discrimination come from loved ones. It comes from family members,. It comes from romantic partners, it comes from friends. These are absolutely abusive things to do. We collectively centre thin women's experiences. So thin women centre themselves in a way that is totally uncritical of this shit. This is like, girl boss, diet abuse sip.