There's some something that happened in the attachment that led to this disposition for. What kind of thing is happening? I mean, it can be a wide variety of things. Sometimes with when you're looking at a personality disorder, something has been so severe that now it is part of the personality in some ways. It could be a very misattuned parent or maybe not having somebody who could reflect back to you at a young age,. marrying sort of like, you know, I feel sad or I feel afraid.