How to Turn a Disengaged Couple Into a Partner

Couples don't think that couples think you know it's either been eight months or it's been eight years I mean we've heard a lot of like this yeah. and you know all those kinds of things well also and that the ways that you actually are engaging aren't completely dismissed right right discardedYeah but that wasn't enough that your effort is your effort yeah that my effort is like yeah I see that and I appreciate that and and and I do receive that and accept it right  I get how that could be confusing but you know what I mean I thought I did I think I do again but there was a moment but but I'm just saying that I think that that's