Are You Afraid of the Potential Consequences of Being Yourself?

The idea that just because you have a bad day, i should be expected to deal with that before i see any good behaviour from you is absolute nonsense. It's very often used by unstable, emotionally volatile idiots to justify their total lack of emotional responsibility. The easiest way to do this is to directly attack the fear involved. We are fraid of potential consequences from being ourselves around another person. So they can't be fully themselves in a relationship because theyare afraid of the potential consequences. And that fear is prevents them from being more of themselves.