You're going to make a lot of fuckof mistakes. Make the mistakes quickly, learn your lesson and move on. When you apologize, use active languae. Own it. Say id i would say, don't even say i made a mistake or i made a bad decision. It wasn't a bad choice. It was a stupid move on my part. You want to be comfortable being cool who you are in society. That's taking responsibility. And if you do that, you'll have ten thousand people at your funeral because they have so much respect for you as an individual. I mean, here's the reality. If you hurt some one,  some one will forgive you