What's Your Job During a Tantrum?

The more you try to stop a tantrum, the more you're adding your own frustration and unconscious judgment. We want to actually teach our kids the skills so that next time they're in a similar situation, they have more skills to manage those feelings. You don't fireproof your house if you have a fire, you just contain the fire. "I really believe every single parent who can, like needs to be part of our membership," she says.