Life is the intersection between chaos and stasis. You need chaos to move energy from one state to another in order to do anything interesting. And part of that living on purpose and making conscious choices right in the contect of power, is using the appropriate amount of force according to the context. So as you were talking about dance and leading and following, i was also thinking about martial arts. In sort of explaining things to people, or dealing with conflict, into personal conflict, you use theappropriate amount of force necessary. There's an art and there's a skill to that, and there're a simplicity to it as well. Obviously.