How to Navigate When Siblings Get Married Before You

I was there for the engagement basically went to Israel and flew back for the wedding which kind of also took me out of the equation a little bit. In retrospect when I think about that it was actually very helpful during that time. People saw me not as oh no about you're the oldest sister not married but they were able to see me as someone who was pursuing a dream and they were curious to doubt it so that was also very helpful everyone needs at a certain point something that they're extremely passionate and they could pour themselves into, she says. She talks about how comparisons very often the thief of joy and having perspective and happy for others.