Will I Find the One?

Sally Kohn: I think that this idea of being a Spencer, I love that title of Kate Bullock's book because what she's doing is exactly what Lena was saying. She says many women feel like their joy and hope in life is being sapped by this feeling that it's going to be an unrequited life. Kohn: You do things that fulfill you because otherwise you will be in misery. And the interesting thing about that is whether you have a partner or not.